I Am Not A Victim

By: Janisha Cook

“Strong women don’t make themselves look pitiful, & don’t point fingers. They stand & they deal”. –Mandy Hale-

Depression is the number one cause for women to think less of themselves and feel as if people are judging them. Ladies it is time for us to change. We are strong because of we are: mothers, daughters, sisters, friends and granddaughters. Life will always take turns and build hills, but it is up to you to get over them and knock them down.  As a young woman, I have experienced many difficulties, some at the hands of friends but mainly by those that were closest to me. It is amazing how people do not want to see you prosper in life; yet constantly speak on the things they think you should do. Have you ever wondered what your purpose was here on earth or why people with issues continue to come into your life? After three suicide attempts, my daughter’s father trying to take her away and having high anxiety, life became overwhelming; yet I have made the decision that I am not a victim, and never will I be again! Depression, suicidal thoughts, unhappiness, and anxiety will no longer have control over me. With time I have been able to overcome my struggles and I have grown to love myself more. I have learned to look life in the face and say, “I can do all things through Christ, which strengthens me.” I now believe that focusing on my well-being has lead to self- healing and in turn I now make self-care a priority. Depression was the main downfall in my life. Now that I am growing and finding different things that make me happy and make me smile, depression will no longer keep me as a victim. I am strong, wise and Gods most precious gift. I am not a victim! I Am NOT a victim! I have defined beauty as being myself and standing in my own light. It doesn’t matter how people perceive me, its all about what makes me happy. Whether it be my colorful clothes, my sketchy; yet fashionable shoes, the way I wear my bright makeup or the 150 plus tattoos that I have all over my body. All that matters is that each piece of my life is expressed through these things, and that the way I carry myself represents the beauty that I am! In return, loving me first has allowed me to stand stronger and be more confident, as I continue to strive towards being the best version of me, no matter what circumstance that may come my way.

Stay Tuned…

For the introduction of T.H.E. My Warrior Life Team’s Holistic Health Warrior: Taylor Gordon next week.

Be Blessed,

Wendy